Relationship is a living thing

The life of human is very much colorful and complicated, it is continuous relating and associating with others. We can't go alone without companion or can't maintain the process of being single, we all need companion, we need someone to care and share our thoughts, possessions, and our self. We're not intended to live alone, that we we're inspired of living because there are people who cared for us, that there are those people who loved us and shared us their joy and their possession. But relationship won't last or stay long if we won't nurture it, it is a living thing that gives life to human, "relationship don't die, they just wither in process of not giving time and value into it."

A loving relationship

It is normal part of life that we get associated with people. Our love ones, relatives, friends, acquaintances, and others are part of people we mingled with everyday. A nice smile, a sound of hi from our mouth, a wave from our hands, and a tap on shoulder are indication of communication that signifies a loving relationship. A person needs constant interaction and association with other; in fact this will improve the health and life of human. Inner emotions can be healed through sharing of ideas, feelings, and experience; it will release tension and bring

A loving atmosphere

I usually walk about a mile going to work and another mile in coming home. For the past three years, I pass to an interior where houses are very close; the residents can be seen doing their work and household chores. From home I go out walking passing a street inside the town proper then a few meters away entering a path way about two meters or less in width where people, bicycle, and motorcycle can pass. What inspire me in walking instead of riding a Pedi cab and pay five to ten pesos is the atmosphere that I see when I pass. I will encounter acquaintances for long period because way back during elementary and college days, they were the same people I passed, though we don’t have time to sit and talk to relate, to smile and wave hands on each other is enough to show our care and love for each other.

Jealousy; is it a manifestation of love or cruelty.

“I will kill you because I love you, I don’t want you to be with her!” A wife had said this line to her husband. She doesn’t want to let her husband go and be with his girlfriend, maybe she is too much possessive of her husband. This situation is not new or unusual; in fact several broken families had suffered because of this. If the family encountered problems, they put blame in each other instead of putting solution and building a better relationship.

What matters most, relation or possession?

Common things like money, car, watch, computer, food, pets, and other materials are cause of dispute and misunderstanding. Because we exert much effort in providing and having those things we tend to value them so much, that we keep them and protect it. We don’t notice that the materials we gain are more important than the relationship we have with our partner, kids, siblings, parents, and friends. There are instances that because we value those things too much, if they are broken or destroyed by our fellow, we get angry with them, hurt them or the worst kill them for some simple things. It is after committing the bad decision that you conclude you’re wrong.